A reader writes... Q: I’m a 32-year-old single girl and I haven’t been having much success meeting guys. One of my friends wants to set me up with a co-worker. She says he’s cute and smart, but he’s only 23! Is that too young?

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A reader writes... Q: My husband travels for work a lot. He’s away three or four nights a week. When I get really lonely, I tend to turn to masturbation to pleasure myself. I once told my husband that I do this and he got really upset. He said I should just wait for nights that he’s home. Do you think I’m being selfish, or is he making an unfair request?