A reader writes...Q: I've been married to a wonderful woman for three years. I'm in my 40s, and this is my second marriage. During my first marriage, I decided that I never wanted to have children and so had a vasectomy. My current wife knew this before we married, but now she says she wants a family. She is adamant and says she's not sure our marriage can survive if we don't have children. So I'm faced with two problems: Are vasectomies reversible? And should I have an unwanted child for the sake of my marriage?
POLL: Should this guy reverse his vasectomy?
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72% (1027) |
No way! He made his feelings clear before they got married! |
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21% (301) |
Maybe... Maybe he'd like kids if he tried. |
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5% (84) |
Yes! A happy wife is a happy life. |
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