Q.: My new boyfriend is... a little quick on the trigger. He's really embarrassed about it, and refuses to talk when it happens. I like him a lot, and I don't want to break up, but our intimate relationship is suffering badly. Any advice?
POLL: What should she do?
| 39% (695) | Don't try to talk to him right after it happens. Discuss it during a neutral time, in a relaxed and understanding way. | |
| 11% (197) | Suggest he see his doctor. It might be medically related. | |
| 6% (122) | Suggest he "take care of business" before attempting any couples time. He should last longer the second time around. | |
| 1% (23) | This rarely gets better. Move on. | |
| 3% (64) | Use condoms or desensitizing cremes. | |
| 37% (664) | Next time it happens, he should focus on *your* enjoyment -- in other ways. He may be ready for Round 2 after that. |
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