Q.: My new boyfriend is... a little quick on the trigger. He's really embarrassed about it, and refuses to talk when it happens. I like him a lot, and I don't want to break up, but our intimate relationship is suffering badly. Any advice?
|39% (695)||Don't try to talk to him right after it happens. Discuss it during a neutral time, in a relaxed and understanding way.|
|11% (197)||Suggest he see his doctor. It might be medically related.|
|6% (122)||Suggest he "take care of business" before attempting any couples time. He should last longer the second time around.|
|1% (23)||This rarely gets better. Move on.|
|3% (64)||Use condoms or desensitizing cremes.|
|37% (664)||Next time it happens, he should focus on *your* enjoyment -- in other ways. He may be ready for Round 2 after that.|