http://www.courting-disaster.com/ en-us © 2004-2008 Brad J. Guigar. All rights reserved Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:00:07 -0500 60 http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7460/ http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7460/ Guigar Reader Questions Courting Disaster sex love relationships blind date Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:00:07 -0500 A reader writes... If you’re not into your first date, what’s the best thing a guy can say to exit reasonably quickly, while being respectful about it? What’s the best way for a woman to do the same? A reader writes... If you’re not into your first date, what’s the best thing a guy can say to exit reasonably quickly, while being respectful about it? What’s the best way for a woman to do the same?

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]]> http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7436/ http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7436/ Guigar Reader Questions Courting Disaster sex love relationships losers Fri, 26 Feb 2010 00:00:00 -0500 A reader writes... Q: Where can a woman go to find a decent, honest, normal guy for a serious relationship? I've tried the dating sites, go out with my friends to concerts, outdoor and indoor activities and bars. I am an attractive 45-year-old divorced mom, educated, physically fit, well-mannered, honest and respectful. All I seem to find are jerks, liars and stupid men. Any suggestions? A reader writes... Q: Where can a woman go to find a decent, honest, normal guy for a serious relationship? I've tried the dating sites, go out with my friends to concerts, outdoor and indoor activities and bars. I am an attractive 45-year-old divorced mom, educated, physically fit, well-mannered, honest and respectful. All I seem to find are jerks, liars and stupid men. Any suggestions?

]]> http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7406/ http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7406/ Guigar Reader Questions Courting Disaster sex love relationships wrong name Fri, 19 Feb 2010 00:00:08 -0500 A reader writes... Q: I've been going out with a guy for over two years. Last week, while we were having sex, he called out another woman's name -- the name of a new girl in his office that I've heard his friends mention repeatedly as being hot. We haven't had sex since. He insists that it was completely innocent. What should I do? A reader writes... Q: I've been going out with a guy for over two years. Last week, while we were having sex, he called out another woman's name -- the name of a new girl in his office that I've heard his friends mention repeatedly as being hot. We haven't had sex since. He insists that it was completely innocent. What should I do?

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]]> http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7379/ http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7379/ Guigar Reader Questions Courting Disaster sex love relationships unrequited Fri, 12 Feb 2010 00:00:01 -0500 A reader writes... Q: I'm a long time reader, first time asker; I am hoping all those other readers can help me figure out the right way to solve my problem, since they seem very knowledgeable. I'm a university student who's never had a girlfriend, much less a relationship. I have recently started to develop a crush of sorts for a girl who's taking a same class as I do. I came to develop that crush after observing that she seemed to be giving me glances and looks, and that she seemed to be the only one laughing at nearly all... A reader writes... Q: I'm a long time reader, first time asker; I am hoping all those other readers can help me figure out the right way to solve my problem, since they seem very knowledgeable. I'm a university student who's never had a girlfriend, much less a relationship. I have recently started to develop a crush of sorts for a girl who's taking a same class as I do. I came to develop that crush after observing that she seemed to be giving me glances and looks, and that she seemed to be the only one laughing at nearly all of my crummy jokes. Once I had seen her literally turn her head to give me a look, and also seen her give me a big smile when I asked some questions.

All of this wouldn't be a problem if it wasn't for the fact that that's about all I get from her in terms of positive reactions: I had figured I ought to gather some courage and ask her out to lunch, and I've flat-out asked her once and insinuated it the other time, but both times she refused, saying she had eaten already.

I don't think she dares to approach me, but she has no problems approaching other people and talking to them, including other guys. There's not even a cursory 'hello' or a nod of acknowledgment or anything like that when I enter class or see her somewhere else (although we do talk if we run into each other face-to-face).

I don't understand it, it's confused me to the point of upsetting me, and I have no idea whether I should simply ask her out again more forcefully or if those glances and those smiles were just a big misunderstanding.

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]]> http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7335/ http://www.courting-disaster.com/forums/CDchat/7335/ Guigar Reader Questions Courting Disaster sex love relationships dinner dating check tip Fri, 29 Jan 2010 00:00:02 -0500 A reader writes... Q: Is it classless for a female not to even attempt to help pay the dinner bill on the first date? I was going to pay the whole bill anyway but it turned me off so bad that she didn't at least ask, that I never called her again. A reader writes... Q: Is it classless for a female not to even attempt to help pay the dinner bill on the first date? I was going to pay the whole bill anyway but it turned me off so bad that she didn't at least ask, that I never called her again.

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