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		<copyright>&#xA9; 2004-2008 Brad J. Guigar. All rights reserved</copyright> 
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 00:00:01 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>POLL: A Touching Situation ...</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 00:00:01 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes...Q: When is it appropriate for a boss or co-worker to touch you? My boss is always putting his arm on mine or my shoulder or my back when he talks to me. It doesn&#x26;rsquo;t seem sexual, but I&#x26;rsquo;m not real comfortable with it. I&#x26;rsquo;ve also worked at places where everyone hugs everyone else for the least little thing. I&#x26;rsquo;m probably in the minority on this, but that doesn&#x26;rsquo;t seem appropriate either. What are the rules on this?</description>
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			<title>strip for July / 03 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>POLL: What&#x27;s the point in clicking?</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 00:00:01 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes...Q: &#x26;quot;I&#x27;m divorced, in my mid-50s, and so frustrated over the lack of suitable men to date. Many of my single women friends, older and younger than me, say the same thing. I&#x27;ve tried online dating, but it depresses me to meet so many men who are boring or weird. I look at the men&#x27;s profiles, and I just think - yuck! Yet I know women who&#x27;ve met great men online, even married them. What am I doing wrong?&#x26;quot;</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b><font color="red">A reader writes...</font>Q: &quot;I'm divorced, in my mid-50s, and so frustrated over the lack of suitable men to date. Many of my single women friends, older and younger than me, say the same thing. I've tried online dating, but it depresses me to meet so many men who are boring or weird. I look at the men's profiles, and I just think - yuck! Yet I know women who've met great men online, even married them. What am I doing wrong?&quot;<br><br></b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>strip for June / 26 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>POLL: The Kindest Uncut?</title>
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			<dc:creator>Guigar</dc:creator>
			<category>Reader Questions</category>
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			<category>sex</category>
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			<category>vasectomy</category>
			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 00:00:07 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes...Q: I&#x27;ve been married to a wonderful woman for three years. I&#x27;m in my 40s, and this is my second marriage. During my first marriage, I decided that I never wanted to have children and so had a vasectomy. My current wife knew this before we married, but now she says she wants a family. She is adamant and says she&#x27;s not sure our marriage can survive if we don&#x27;t have children. So I&#x27;m faced with two problems: Are vasectomies reversible? And should I have an unwanted child for the sake of my marriage?</description>
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			<title>strip for June / 19 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>strip for June / 12 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>POLL: Tantric sex</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes...Q: My wife wants to try tantric sex. I think it sounds incredibly boring. Should I try it?

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b><font color="red">A reader writes...</font>Q: My wife wants to try tantric sex. I think it sounds incredibly boring. Should I try it?<br><br></b>

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			<title>POLL: Straight talk for the gay man</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 00:00:08 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes...Q: My girlfriend Linda has this old friend, Ryan, who visits now and then. Ryan is gay. I&#x27;ve never had a problem with gay folks, but this guy can&#x27;t seem to get through a conversation without some tale of his exploits with men -- and he shares a lot more than I want to hear from anybody, gay or straight. The thing is that Linda and he go way back. Should I tell her how much he bugs me or just let it ride and make myself scarce when he comes to visit? Or am I a closet homophobe...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b><font color="red">A reader writes...</font>Q: My girlfriend Linda has this old friend, Ryan, who visits now and then. Ryan is gay. I've never had a problem with gay folks, but this guy can't seem to get through a conversation without some tale of his exploits with men -- and he shares a lot more than I want to hear from anybody, gay or straight. The thing is that Linda and he go way back. Should I tell her how much he bugs me or just let it ride and make myself scarce when he comes to visit? Or am I a closet homophobe who needs re-education?<br><br></b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>strip for June / 05 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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			<title>POLL: Come on over, there&#x27;s nobody home...</title>
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			<category>sex</category>
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			<category>teenager</category>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 00:00:07 -0400</pubDate>
			<description>A reader writes... : I am a single mother with an 18-year-old daughter. I was called away overnight on business recently and I told my daughter that she was not to have any guests over while I was gone. I was back the next evening and the house was fine. She&#x27;d kept it clean and said things went well. A couple of days later when I was emptying the bathroom trash I found a condom wrapper. Now I am thinking the worst, but don&#x27;t want to cause a big scene. But since it looks like she lied to me, I can&#x27;t...</description>
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			<title>strip for May / 29 / 2009</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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