POLL: While you were out...

A reader writes... I have been dating my girlfriend for three years. In the past few months, she has grown really cold toward our relationship. I am quite busy, and I didn't go out with her for about a month. During that time, she got really close with another guy. She was hanging out with him, clubbing until 5 a.m. I try to do anything I can to please her, but there's been very little chance for me to meet up with her lately because she has been really busy. What should I do? I am not an obsessive person by the way. I just want things the way they were before.

	5% (67)	Compete with the new boyfriend
	0% (7)	Buy her a stunning gift
	37% (496)	Be available more often
	56% (747)	Fly around the earth backwards and turn back time