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POLL: It's All In His Head...

Friday, January 23, 2009 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q.: I'm a woman, 27, and married for five years. For the past two years, we have not had sex, and the years before that, we had sex only once a month. I've spoken to him on the importance of sex in a marriage and also mentioned that I do enjoy making love. We still sleep in the same bed, but we are more like roommates. I once asked him if he was interested in sex and he said, "If you asked me this question three or four months ago I’d say I'm not interested, but now I've mentally prepared myself." I was shocked to hear that. He said he's going to change, but I've been trying to work this out for the past five years. I have no feelings for him anymore. Please help.
POLL: What should she do?
 
17% (260) Get a good divorce lawyer.
 
1% (24) Give him time.
 
60% (898) Find a marriage counselor.
 
15% (231) Accept that he might be gay.
 
4% (68) Help him mentally prepare by quizzing him during foreplay
1481 people have voted in this poll. (This poll is not active.)

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