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POLL: If They Forgive Us, Do We Have To Stop?

Friday, March 06, 2009 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: Derrick's wife treats him horribly. He can't stand it. Derrick and I have already confessed love to each other and had an affair. To top it off, my husband, Frank had been ignoring me for a year (we've been married for three). Derrick has only been married a year. Derrick wants out of his marriage to be with me and I want out of mine to be with him. But, both of our spouses found out about our affair, and they have forgiven us. Now what should Derrick and I do since we still love each other?

Names have been changes to protect the innocent.

POLL: What should the couple in the affair do?
 
13% (144) Go back to their respective spouses
 
54% (595) Leave the spouses and build their relationship
 
32% (355) Leave the spouses, but *not* for each other
1094 people have voted in this poll. (This poll is not active.)

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