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POLL: The Kindest Uncut?

Friday, June 19, 2009 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes...Q: I've been married to a wonderful woman for three years. I'm in my 40s, and this is my second marriage. During my first marriage, I decided that I never wanted to have children and so had a vasectomy. My current wife knew this before we married, but now she says she wants a family. She is adamant and says she's not sure our marriage can survive if we don't have children. So I'm faced with two problems: Are vasectomies reversible? And should I have an unwanted child for the sake of my marriage?

POLL: Should this guy reverse his vasectomy?
 
72% (1027) No way! He made his feelings clear before they got married!
 
21% (301) Maybe... Maybe he'd like kids if he tried.
 
5% (84) Yes! A happy wife is a happy life.
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