A reader writes...Q: How much time must pass before it is permissible to demand that a man make a commitment? My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. We spend nearly every night together, at my place or his. Our relationship is great (I think), but I am 30 and would like to have some sense of my future with this guy. He's had a few relationships before, and he said they ended when the women started to pressure him. Do I give him an ultimatum and risk losing him? I really don't want to get back into the dating game. Or should I give him more time?
POLL: After three years of intimate dating, this woman should...
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7% (105) |
... dump her non-committal boyfriend |
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42% (603) |
... give him a deadline, and be prepared to walk |
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37% (538) |
... give him enough space to let him see what life would be like without her |
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1% (17) |
... start seeing other men on the sly (just in case) |
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9% (132) |
... be patient -- these things always work out |
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2% (40) |
... try harder to please him |
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