A reader writes... Q: I am a 23-year-old male who has been dating a 20-year-old female. We just met in May. Now she is talking about marrying me and having kids. I love her, but I feel things are just moving way too fast. She is bisexual and it's not a problem. However, she wants to bring a lady in that I do not like. Recently, we argue and fight a lot. I am kind of not in love with her much anymore. However, I do not want to see her get hurt or try to hurt herself if I try to break-up with her. She is a great girl. It is just that she is moving way too fast for me. Please help me do what's right so that she does not get hurt. Thank you so much.