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POLL: Why Doesn't She Understand?

Friday, November 20, 2009 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: Why is it that people totally ignore another person's wishes? For example -- If I say I'm interested in dating only and not looking for a relationship, why would a woman agree to date me if she's looking for more?

POLL: This question is all about honesty. I mean, what he actually means is "What's the best way to tell a woman that I'm just in it for the potential to have sex"? So... what's the best way?
 
27% (369) He had it right: "I'm interested in dating only and not looking for a relationship"
 
64% (858) Come right out and say it: "I'm only interested in a physical relationship"
 
2% (37) Don't say either. She'll figure it out when the phone doesn't ring
 
5% (68) He should *pretend* that he wants a relationship and then pretend that it just didn't work out. Right after the sex.
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