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POLL: What About Me?!

Friday, December 04, 2009 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: I've been dating a very nice man for about four months now. He is honest, loyal and a gentleman. He has three kids (17 to 21) who stay with him on the weekends, when I don't usually hear from him. He also went out of state for the holidays with the kids. I received one phone call that lasted a few minutes. My question is, is it normal that I haven't met his kids yet? I just feel like I'm a girlfriend through the week only. Will he fit me into the rest of his life eventually? P.S. I think it's great he is such a good dad. I also know there is no other woman on the weekend.

POLL: What should this woman do?
 
1% (29) She needs to put her foot down with her man.
 
10% (167) Be patient. He'll come around
 
42% (658) She's only been dating a few weeks! Respect him for being a good dad.
 
43% (664) Be more understanding. His kids are a priority on the weekends. She gets the rest.
 
1% (19) Find a new man. One who can focus full-time on her needs.
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