Re: "I'm ready for my close-up... (or am I?)" (Score: 1)
posted Wednesday, February 10, 2010 - 09:03 AM (#53909
In Response to Veldan (#53836):
(Just because I'm enjoying the debate...)
-"If this were as big a problem as you hear, MANY more people would have seen each others partners and ex-partners naked."-
Are you basing this on couples vs. sightings, or known pics vs. known sightings?
I think the real point that your missing is not that making the film is a bad idea; but, rather that the mere fact that she's hesitant is raising red flags to the level of maturity and trust in the relationship.
-"How much have i come across with people i actually know? 2 pictures, which were placed stupidly (aka, computer background at a mates place)."-
Ok, so you've actually seen it because someone was careless. All you're really proving is:
- outting one's partner doesn't have to be malicious;
- there's one more person in this forum who's witnessed that it can happen, pushing the statistics further into the "beware" category.
Whether or not you found it personally distasteful or salacious is basically irrelevant. She's already expressed that she doesn't want others to see the video.
[Permission to say "lawyered"? :D ]
-"By all means be careful. However, don't let fear hold you back from expressing yourself with your partner."-
She doesn't seem to have a problem with expressing herself physically with her partner. She just doesn't want to do it for the public.
-"Damn the prudes, they're probably just jealous they can't be that open with their desire ;)"-
Is that a secret desire to google the video peaking through? ;P