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POLL: First Timer

Friday, August 13, 2010 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q. I met a girl over the Internet recently. She's 20 to my 24 and still a virgin. She recently told me she loved me despite us not meeting yet. The problem is I'm not in love with her and have told her as much. She continues to flirt and talk about how much she wants to meet up and have sex. I'm never one to turn it down, but I'm afraid to hurt her because I don't want her to think of her first time as some guy who let her love him and didn't reciprocate. What do I do?

POLL: Should he or shouldn't he?
3% (83) Of course he should!
39% (940) No way. This has disaster written all over it
57% (1362) Geez, why not meet her first and THEN decide?
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