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POLL: Is He a Cheater?

Friday, November 26, 2010 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: My boyfriend stays out until 3 to 4 a.m. at least three times a week. I asked him if he’s cheating and he says no. I’ve asked him before and he said no, but I found evidence that he was talking to women on the computer and ex girlfriends by text message. He’s on every porn site, and he has porn DVDs. On top of that he’s on Mocospace, Myspace, Facebook, and Linkedin. He says its for his music promotion, but all of his friends are women. He cheated three years ago, but I can’t help but feel like I’m being played again. I want to trust him but it’s so darn hard. He says he will come in the house anytime he wants because hes a grown man, and he’s not going to follow any rules. I feel that if he loves me he would come in the house at a reasonble hour. Am I being too controlling? Or is he not respecting me the way I deserve? Please help, my famliy and friends usually give one-sided advice.
POLL: Is he cheating?
 
24% (402) Yes
 
2% (47) Definitely
 
3% (55) Absolutely
 
27% (449) Are you kidding? Of COURSE he is!
 
6% (109) Beyond the shadow of a doubt
 
29% (484) NO! He's not -- sorry... I can't even pretend. He's cheating.
 
4% (69) I, um, really think he's innocent... *really*...
1615 people have voted in this poll. (This poll is not active.)

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