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Original Comment:POLL: Husband's class act makes her want to drop outin Reader Questions by GuigarFriday, December 24, 2010 - 12:00 AM
This week... My husband and I (both in our mid-40s) have been married for 18 years and have been together for about 25. He has been a teacher pretty much the whole time we've known each other, and he currently teaches at an all-girls school. To help keep things exciting in the bedroom, my husband and I occasionally like to engage in role playing. A week or so ago, he wanted me to pretend to be a naughty schoolgirl. I told him I wasn't comfortable with this and we should stick to more "grown up" fantasies. Since then, we haven't engaged in any kind of role playing at all. I made some suggestions, but he turned them down. When I asked what was going on, he said maybe we should take a little break from these role-playing fantasies. I can't ever recall him suggesting any kind of role playing that could be interpreted as job-related until now. There's really nothing to suggest he's getting any kind of side action (no suspicious phone calls, grooming habits, working longer hours, etc) but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little concerned. I want to ask him if he's ever found a student attractive or if he's ever knowingly had a student who had a crush on him, but is there any way to do this without making it seem like I'm accusing him of something?
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