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Original Comment:

POLL: Hard to get his mental attraction out of his mind

in Reader Questions by Guigar

Wednesday, January 12, 2011 - 12:00 AM

This week... Q.: I have a female friend with whom I've been intimate before. The thing is, I was always attracted to her mentally and emotionally, but not as much physically. I've been unable to get her out of my mind, and wonder if she might be someone I could share my life with, but I'm worried that a shortage of physical attraction might lead to a disastrous sex-life or worse. Is is possible to learn to be physically attracted to someone, or to simply move past such skin-deep hangups?
POLL: Is it possible to have a long-term relationship to someone without the physical attraction?
 
 61% (507) Don't kid yourself. The physical part fades. All you really *have* is the mental/emotional connection.
 
 15% (128) You need that raw sexual attraction. Keep looking.
 
 22% (183) You don't *have* to keep the lights on, y'know...
818 people have voted in this poll. (This poll is not active.)
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