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POLL: She stopped the affair, but she's keeping the friend

in Reader Questions by Guigar

Wednesday, February 23, 2011 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: I recently found out my wife was having an affair with one of her old friends. They had a sexual relationship over a decade ago and, except for a few years when they lost touch, have always been good friends. Less than a year after they reconnected, they started sleeping together. I discovered the affair and she says it's done, but she still wants to be friends with him. I don't think our marriage can work with him in the situation. What should I do?
POLL: What should he do?
 
 39% (462) Have a serious talk with the wife: "It's him or me."
 
 19% (223) Try to convince the wife that this is a bad idea
 
 32% (376) Leave the wife. This ends badly.
 
 3% (36) You're over-reacting. There *were* those three months in 2006 when they weren't having sex.
 
 5% (66) Threesome!
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