I decided to break things off, since we wouldn't see each other, but she's now decided to attend the same university as me and go in to teaching instead. While I approve of this decision, and am glad that this means we can be together next year, I also feel that she changed her life plans to be with me and that seems to put extra pressure on the relationship. We're taking a break right now, since we're so far away from each other, and I've had much more satisfying sex while in college.
In summation, am I paranoid about her changing her plans putting pressure on us staying together? And, at my age, is it a good idea to "settle" already, even though I've only dated about 5 or 6 women in my life?
POLL: What should he do about this girl?
|40% (264)||Hey, he didn't ask her to change her school. If the relationship doesn't work out, he's not responsible.|
|20% (134)||She SO changed her school for him, and he's totally stringing her along. He needs to tell her the truth ASAP.|
|38% (253)||Don't be so quick to write her off. If the sex isn't good, it can always improve.|
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