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POLL: I'm with the band. (But who's the band with?)

Friday, June 10, 2011 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: I’ve been seeing this guy for a while and am wondering if I should give up on him. The thing is I really like him but he refuses to settle down and I am so ready. I know he cares about me but he’s always out doing his thing. It’s hard for me to know what he’s up to because he plays drums in a band, so he’s always off in some club. I try to go sometimes to watch him play, instead of listening to the music, I find myself watching the other girls in the club and trying to figure which one is his type than me. I know it’s crazy but I can’t stop myself.
POLL: What should she do?
 
7% (103) Trust your instincts. If you think he's got a wandering eye, chances are he's wandering.
 
23% (327) Grow up and get a little self-esteem.
 
67% (938) It's not about self-esteem or wandering eyes. It's about settling down -- which is something that *he* isn't about.
 
1% (27) Be patient. He'll come around.
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