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POLL: By-gones won't stay gone

Friday, June 24, 2011 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: I messed up and I cheated with a woman from the office. It was nearly two years ago. My wife forgave me. We got a little counseling at the church and stayed together. But now she won’t stop harping on it. Every time we have a fight, she brings it up. It’s really getting on my nerves. How can we move forward if she’s constantly looking back?
POLL: What can he do if his wife refuses to forgive and forget?
25% (448) Nothing. He cheated, and the consequences of that include her mistrust and anger
57% (1008) Counseling... much, much more counseling.
2% (38) She'll forget. Eventually. Maybe.
8% (146) Bring up stuff from *her* past. See how *she* likes it.
7% (127) Try to avoid fights. She's going to win them anyway.
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