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POLL: Been there... done that...

Friday, September 02, 2011 - 12:00 AM

A reader writes... Q: My significant other and I have been seeing each other for 12 years. After six years of great sex she started pulling back. She referred to my petting as grabbing. She never really liked to kiss. Then she stopped having intercourse. There was no conversation about the impact on me. Now any and all intimacy is gone. I consider myself a touchy-feely man and I miss the closeness. I’ve kept seeing her, hoping that she would change, but she hasn’t. I am 73 years old. She is 64, attractive and physically active and takes care of her health. She refuses to seek counseling. I feel that if I break up with her she will be hurt, but wonder if I should just do what is right for me.

POLL: This guy should
71% (989) ...ask his partner what's wrong.
0% (3) ...wait it out. She's warm up.
1% (16) ...try something new in the bedroom.
27% (380) ...move on.
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