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POLL: The ties that bind

Thursday, September 22, 2011 - 12:00 AM

Q. I’m female, 27, engaged to a great guy, 29. Everything is fine — with one exception. Our sex life is not exciting. The problem is I know what’s missing but I don’t know how to broach the subject. My first lover was into bondage, and I came to find the physical act of being restrained overpoweringly pleasurable. Towards the end of the relationship the mere act of having my limbs tied could bring me to climax before he did anything else. I’ve been too embarrassed to tell my subsequent partners. My boyfriend is somewhat conservative and more religious than I. I’d really like to experience the highs I had with Mr. X with my current mate. How do I tell him I want to bring ropes to bed?

POLL: How should she broach this topic with her boyfriend?
35% (672) Just blurt it out. He sounds like a boy scout, but those guys are *good* when it comes to knots.
54% (1039) Lay a few hints... maybe start with a silk scarf or his neck tie
5% (101) Tie him up and test the waters
2% (47) Forget about it. Find yourself a guy who knows the ropes.
1% (31) See a doctor (This one is for everyone who complained about last week's poll)
1890 people have voted in this poll. (This poll is not active.)

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