My spouse became entangled with a "Just A Friend" of the opposite sex for years without the knowledge of either respective partner. Neither sees anything wrong with their surreptitious relationship. My spouse doesn't understand my zero-tolerance for any interaction with this person when not in my presence. And on the "Oh-By-The-Way" Front... they both insist the 4th party can't be told about the relationship. Am I wrong? Wouldn't clean, fresh air be a lot better for all four of us? What advice do you offer?.....
POLL: What should he do?
| 27% (521) | Tell the other guy's wife. | |
| 0% (16) | Keep mum. | |
| 20% (396) | Convince them that *they* should confess to the man's wife. | |
| 51% (996) | Get the heck out of that relationship -- and who cares about the other three! |
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