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POLL: Gone in Sixty Seconds

Friday, May 11, 2012 - 12:00 AM

Q.: My new boyfriend is... a little quick on the trigger. He's really embarrassed about it, and refuses to talk when it happens. I like him a lot, and I don't want to break up, but our intimate relationship is suffering badly. Any advice?

POLL: What should she do?
39% (695) Don't try to talk to him right after it happens. Discuss it during a neutral time, in a relaxed and understanding way.
11% (197) Suggest he see his doctor. It might be medically related.
6% (122) Suggest he "take care of business" before attempting any couples time. He should last longer the second time around.
1% (23) This rarely gets better. Move on.
3% (64) Use condoms or desensitizing cremes.
37% (664) Next time it happens, he should focus on *your* enjoyment -- in other ways. He may be ready for Round 2 after that.
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