You have two hands, a mouth, and (apparently) a functioning set of genitalia. If you aren't "pleasing her like you could", then it's a failure of creativity or attitude rather than one of height - and both of those can be fixed. More likely, you're doing better than you think. After all, if she'd wanted a taller man, she could have gone for one. As far as sex being uncomfortable, I'd suggest trying different positions. Maybe experiment with her riding you, rather than vice versa. There are all sorts of possibilities, really. As far as kissing her "during"... Well, it's true. If you're that much shorter than her, it may not be possible for you to kiss her on the lips while penetrating her - or at least not without her bending in awkward and potentially uncomfortable ways. That's a sadness. Deal with it, move on, and make up for it by kissing her on the lips before and after, and then kissing her on the parts of the body that you can reach during. There are also things that you can do that are at least reasonably close. If you want to kiss her while you orgasm, ask her to give you a hand job so you can. If you want to give ehr the experience fo being kissed while she's being penetrated, it's worth noting that there's a kind of strap-on that goes on the upper leg, designed for lesbians. It's possible that the geometries on that might work better (or just let her have her favorite dildo in and kiss her while you bump it with your knee)
A reader writes...
Q.: Don't get me wrong, I love my girlfriend, and her being over a head and a half taller than me doesn't embarrass me in any way like I know it would other guys. Hell, I always say she's perfect height for hugging because my face plants right into her chest!
However, there is a small mechanical problem. Sex can be really uncomfortable for us because of my height, I really want to be able to kiss her during, but I ... can't even reach.
The things I can do to her are kinda limited by my height and i'm worried i'm not pleasing her like I could.
Any tips on how to make up for my "size?"
POLL: What should he do?
| 7% (79) | Short of growing taller, there's really not much he can do | |
| 11% (128) | Have a seat. Have her sit in a chair and go from there. | |
| 7% (78) | Pillow talk. Roll up a pillow and place it under the small of her back. | |
| 71% (793) | Get a copy of the kama sutra and have fun finding the right one for you | |
| 2% (29) | Stilts. |
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