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POLL RESULTS: Maid man: (5 comments)

POLL: Maid man

Friday, January 04, 2013 - 10:15 AM



A reader writes...

Q.: My boyfriends a nice guy and he has a nice house, but he has a nice house because he has a good maid. That's where the problem lies, she's rather... stacked and wears one of those more traditional french maid uniforms, also I've noticed her in rather suggestive poses, according to my boyfriend she never positioned herself like that before so why is she so flirty with him now?

POLL: What should the girlfriend do about this maid?
 
27% (419) Who cares? Where do I get a maid like that?!
 
13% (200) Tell the boyfriend to find new help.
 
7% (110) Ignore her. It's nothing.
 
18% (284) Threesome!
 
32% (487) A clean house is a clean house. Have you ever seen how bachelors live?!
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Garwulf
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Re: POLL: Maid man (Score: 0)
posted Friday, January 04, 2013 - 11:33 AM (#62627)

Well, this may be on the obvious side, but have you tried actually talking to the maid about this and asking her about it?

I mean, in all seriousness, shouldn't this be the first step? If it's something innocent, then you don't have to worry. If it's something that constitutes a breach of professionalism, then your boyfriend should be made aware of it.


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Azuaron
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Re: POLL: Maid man (Score: 0)
posted Friday, January 04, 2013 - 12:12 PM (#62629)

Define "traditional French maid uniform". I'm pretty sure the actual traditional maid uniform in France is something along the lines of a floor-length dress of black muslin.

If she's wearing something more along the lines of what Mr. Guigar has drawn in the comic, she's after something. That "something" is probably nothing more sinister than bigger tips.

Basically, as in so many relationship issues, it all comes down to how much you trust your boyfriend. If the maid's legitimately good at her job (and it sounds like she is), and you trust your boyfriend, it shouldn't matter what she wears.


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ErikTheRed
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Re: POLL: Maid man (Score: 0)
posted Friday, January 04, 2013 - 02:37 PM (#62630)

Tell your boyfriend that you're jealous, insecure, and have unrealistic fantasies about changing him. This way he can dump you before wasting any more time in the relationship. I don't say that to excuse his behavior - I do it because you clearly don't have the courage to jump out of a relationship that's not going to go anywhere good. He likes to have scantily-clad women around. You have a problem with that. Making a fuss won't change his moral outlook - he'll either hide his behavior or resent you for making him stop.


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FuzzyWulfe
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Re: POLL: Maid man (Score: 0)
posted Saturday, January 05, 2013 - 12:55 AM (#62632)

The maid outfit shouldn't be an issue. It's probably worn by all the maids and is simply a gimmick to drum up business.

There's an interesting course of events here, though. As far as we know, the maid was not flirty with the boyfriend; but she started to be flirty when the girlfriend noticed. So, either the boyfriend is oblivious, or the maid is actually flirting with the girlfriend. I'd say it's better to ignore it until it becomes an actual issue; it may just be part of her job or completely innocent. If it does become an issue, talk to the maid first to give her a chance to explain herself or correct her actions.


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Sammy
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Re: POLL: Maid man (Score: 0)
posted Sunday, January 06, 2013 - 12:52 PM (#62633)

How big of a house we talking? I'm honestly incredulous that he needs help to keep it clean, maybe once or twice a month for a deep clean but really? What kind of grown man can't clean up after himself? Does he have room-mates?

My house was actually cleaner when I was single, now that I love with my SO and their four year old son and 20 year old nephew my place is a little dirtier but not enough requiring a regular maid.

I also echo the above users POV that this is probably some specialist service if the maid is wearing a fetishised French Maid outfit rather than something practical for house cleaning. In which case I'd say your boyfriend probably hires this service partly for the eye candy, so take that as you will.

Basically, this tells you that if you ever move in with him or get married be prepared for A) Him ogling other women. And B) You are going to have to pick up after him all the time because he can't do it himself.


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